This is my first blog of 2017. I haven’t been doing well with the updates. I try to keep a physical journal with pen and paper because I think that maybe the internet will crash and I’ll lose all the memories. It’s not easy keeping up with a hardcopy.
Baby has learned to cruise for a good month and a half now, and has been walking along with couch and any furniture that continues where there’s something to hold onto for support. We borrowed a walker from a friend but we’re still getting acquainted with it.
For a few weeks now, baby girl has been throwing food on the ground during mealtime. Just yesterday she learned how to hand items to mommy. When I have a feeling she’s deciding to throw a food item on the ground, I stretch out my hand, palm up, and say, “Do you want to eat it? If not, you can give it to mommy.” She learned quick! She has been handing many non-food items to me as well so it crossed over and she knows it can apply to any object. This really cuts down on the mess I have to clean up later!
I learned she’s experimenting with throwing things. She may not want it at the time but maybe a few minutes later she’ll pick up the same piece of food she threw on the ground and eat it. (Yes, I sometimes pick up food from the ground and put it back on her plate.)
An interesting incident happened yesterday. It must’ve been the circumstances. We had a playdate at our home yesterday and it happened during her morning nap. She was able to sleep for about 40 minutes but woke up and stayed awake. Our friends hadn’t left yet although I thought they’d leave before I put baby in the crib. My child is very alert and likes to know Everything that’s happening around her. The FOMO factor played a little bit into what happened next. So our friends leave but then the lawnmower workers start doing their thing. My daughter just woke up and usually needs physical contact for a bit before she’s worked up the nerve to play alone. The sound of the lawnmower really scared her. They mow the lawn the same day every week and she knows the sound. For some reason it really freaked her out yesterday so no matter what I did she cried… and she cried much louder and harder than usual. My heart broke but I had to prep lunch.
Eventually, with food in her belly she was able to get over it for the most part. But anytime she even heard the faintest hint of a lawnmower she’d lose her shit.
She’s now able to distinguish food flavors and she Loves fruit, of course. She will always choose the fruit over any other food. She’s not crazy about bananas though.
I’m trying out different feeding methods. I did the place all the food in front of the child at once and let them feed themselves so the mom can also eat method. I’ve learned that this stresses my daughter out. She’ll start to swat at her ear and hair. So I limit the quantity and variety at any given moment. Some items are better fed with a spoon and some are better hand-fed while still some are best left for her to use her own hands.
She still loves broccoli and I’m going to milk that as long as possible because she’s already over spinach, unless it’s on top of pizza. She’s crazy about all types of berries, especially blue. I learned tonight that sometimes the way she’s fed certain foods makes it much more fun and enjoyable for her. I always love to see the look on her face when I place a tiny clementine slice in front of her and she picks it up. She gives me the most happy smile as if she’s saying, “Orange! I love this. Thanks mommy! I’m going to enjoy every bite.”